We're all ok, my inlaws understood he could not take the stress, so he did not attend. Glad he made that decision as they live in a very small town and each and every person asked me about him... he'd never have made it through answering them all along with the grieving... I held up really well, thanks to prayers, and support of my in laws... I'm not usually around them without him, but they surrounded me with love... what a blessing to have three families, mine, my inlaws and our own...