Sorry to be missing the annaversary party. My brother inlaw was diagnoist with renal cell carcinoma and they removed 1 of his kidneys with no time for alot of tests. He went for his first P.E.T scan the first of the week and found out wednesday it had spread to other parts of his body. Not a good thing as you could imagine. Pretty much telling him to get his things in order. I didn't feel this sad or bad when I was told of my own cancer. He is only 47 and they have only been married for about 1 1/2 yrs. My youngest sisters 1st marriage and dougs 2nd. My sis is 10 yrs younger, not that it matters. I would gladly give whats left of my life if it would cure him and make my little sis smile again..My heart hurts for them..And of course all prayers are welcome....mos