man+woman+hot kissing=ta da (sex). spice up you romance play drive in.ask hubby or boyfriend out on a date tell them the date is at the drive in(at your house)set the mood put out snacks you know drive in food set out a blanket on floor rent a top movie to watch turn all lights off.then ladies start your engines yes you make all the first moves on him.after the big event.stand up put pants back on fixing crotch (just like a guy would do) and remember to thank him(even through its not thanksgiving just tell him thanks for giving.you will have a blast with thistry it you will like it.add your own ideas.hug's alea