ring657130
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My dad passed away today at approx 3pm est. Please finish reading....There is a GOD!
Ihave a story to tell even tho' I am distraught... We had a meeting with the Dr.s today for 11:30am. They told us he was stable, found NO CANCER from biopsies, but due to the fact he had liver and kidney failure he can hang on for a long time. The plans were to transfer him ambulance back to a hospital near my home, so we can visit him daily. She went to make arrangements for the transfer and was going to remove fluid from his belly at 3pm. I haven't seen my dad in 6 days but talked to him daily on telelphone. Told him I coulodn't see him until Saturday. We kept hugging each other and he even was happy he was going back home. The Dr. said she hasn't seen his spirits so uplifted since we arrived, as all week he would only answer yes and no questions and wouldn't even eat. My father and I had such a close bond that I cannot describe.... but am proud of! He kept squeezing me ans telling me that he loves me so much that I would not even know how much. But Idid....Anyway while we were hugging hekept telling me "the light" it's so so bright and tried tocover his eyes and ( there were absolutely NO lights on in the room and the shades and curtain were shut! He even rang the nurse call button and told the nurse That I wouldn't shut the lights off!!! The nurse even asked him "What light"? The room was dimexcept for the nurses station that he was next to and the heart monitor screen that was in his room. ........We hugged and kissed and he told me he'll see at home.....I left to go home. I wasn't even home yet as it is a 3 hour ride. The Dr. called the cell phone because she was gving him "tap" to relieve the fluid and she said something developed...She got him prepared and he then stopped breathing,then his heart stopped. She was upset as we were. My fathers wishes were if he did pass for them not to resucitate. Now We all knew what the Bright Light was....It was either my Mom, Brother,or God saying he was coming for him. I just had to tell you all this as I have heard of this happening....but now I have experienced it.... and I believemy Father waited to go home until he saw me One Last Time and To Tell me How Much He Loved Me and yes he did go Home......just not mine I LOVE YOU DADDY
Ihave a story to tell even tho' I am distraught... We had a meeting with the Dr.s today for 11:30am. They told us he was stable, found NO CANCER from biopsies, but due to the fact he had liver and kidney failure he can hang on for a long time. The plans were to transfer him ambulance back to a hospital near my home, so we can visit him daily. She went to make arrangements for the transfer and was going to remove fluid from his belly at 3pm. I haven't seen my dad in 6 days but talked to him daily on telelphone. Told him I coulodn't see him until Saturday. We kept hugging each other and he even was happy he was going back home. The Dr. said she hasn't seen his spirits so uplifted since we arrived, as all week he would only answer yes and no questions and wouldn't even eat. My father and I had such a close bond that I cannot describe.... but am proud of! He kept squeezing me ans telling me that he loves me so much that I would not even know how much. But Idid....Anyway while we were hugging hekept telling me "the light" it's so so bright and tried tocover his eyes and ( there were absolutely NO lights on in the room and the shades and curtain were shut! He even rang the nurse call button and told the nurse That I wouldn't shut the lights off!!! The nurse even asked him "What light"? The room was dimexcept for the nurses station that he was next to and the heart monitor screen that was in his room. ........We hugged and kissed and he told me he'll see at home.....I left to go home. I wasn't even home yet as it is a 3 hour ride. The Dr. called the cell phone because she was gving him "tap" to relieve the fluid and she said something developed...She got him prepared and he then stopped breathing,then his heart stopped. She was upset as we were. My fathers wishes were if he did pass for them not to resucitate. Now We all knew what the Bright Light was....It was either my Mom, Brother,or God saying he was coming for him. I just had to tell you all this as I have heard of this happening....but now I have experienced it.... and I believemy Father waited to go home until he saw me One Last Time and To Tell me How Much He Loved Me and yes he did go Home......just not mine I LOVE YOU DADDY